but I’m the “normal uncle” according to my sister’s kids
imagine a world in which I’m the reference point for normal

of the words bitch or cunt, so I generally don't use them, but I used the word bitch today because -- somebody called me a cunt,

I was watering it down a bit,

not like I’m not deeply troubled either, but cultural positioning drapes what you think of yourself,

I can say fucking shit anything on LJ, no censorship, that's why I'm still here

Fuck Sberbank LOL

B and I had our redo, after last week's food poisoning. T dropped me off there with a bottle of wine -- I was to Lyft home. We ordered Greek food delivered, ate it outside at dusk, then watched a 1979 film together, eventually snuggling. A comedy, laughed so much! Then we had some serious talk, but not too much, it's a work night, and I'm in ( Read more... )

I've seen some "gender reveal" picture posts from transgender men, and there's a definite sexuality component, of "look how hot I am now", and, yeah, I agree, look how hot you are now - because I'm generally more sexually attracted to men, and now you're a man.

The one I saw most recently, I looked at the man's before pics, from when he was a woman ( Read more... )

for reminding me that I can stop being busy and: enjoy myself

Usually the porn is muted and I'm listening to music.  But tonight I've been listening to the porn.  Yeah, I make sounds during sex also.  We should all make sounds during sex also.  Some of my Twitter bros were retweeting a tweet today about how subs need to learn how to scream, but masters can scream also,

That's something I love about Sir Ben, he ( Read more... )

Busy this morning prepping for maids, then driving to condo, then working from condo -- a busy day back to work after a four-day weekend.

I took a break to speak with K for a while, he cheered me up by listening to my complaints.

Then back to work, then driving home.

I had to wear pants for the first time.  And either they no longer fit or I'm just ( Read more... )